Bestie or Bully? It depends on how much power you give her.

Photo by Alice Alinari on Unsplash

I grew up in Lagos, it isn’t unusual to see people running and others joining the race without knowing why. You run first and ask questions later. Lagos functions in a pattern of organised chaos, that makes the smell of calm at any given time seem like the air was borrowed. Unfortunately, this social behaviour resulted in over a thousand deaths that could have been…